I’ve got a new tradition – Large Print books. I’m on my third or fourth one from the Library here. It’s kind of easy to pick a book because the large print section seems to be fairly good summary of what’s new and popular since they only bring in a limited number.
The last few weeks I’ve been reading Why Do I Love These People?: Honest and Amazing Stories of Real Families by Po Bronson.
I’m about half done – it’s a good read. Basically the author is a story teller. This book is story after story of families with a little bit of advice and opinion tossed in. The stories are really incredible, and he writes in a way that’s easy to take – he draws you in quickly. Generally they are about tough situations that people have gone through, but they are real genuine stories – very realistic, not too much “disney factor”, but he still finds a way to include and inspire hope. I found them very easy to relate to – like “hey that’s just like so and so” or “wow – that’s exactly the way I’ve felt about my father, mother, brother, cousin etc.” or “I have that same dysfunction!”
There are a number of good themes running throughout – but one key idea is that triumph or success as family almost always involves choosing to “move forward”, which often means being at peace with what is in the past. Solutions are not simple and answers are not easy, but they can be found.
Another theme is that the family is stronger than you think. He states that he believes the family is actually evolving in a good way and is as strong as it has ever been – it’s best days are ahead. He gives quite convincing stats and arguments for this, including ones that challenge pessimistic (and common) thoughts/sayings like “divorce is ruining families today” or “parents never spend anytime with their kids” or “kids are too busy” or “kids watch too much tv” or “why would you ever want to bring more kids into this horrible world”. He admits these statements hold truth – but spins things in a more positive light. I found his analysis realistic but encouraging, and any author that can write about the family and walk that line well impresses me.
A good read – encouraging yet challenging, useful and enjoyable – good thoughts on family – that terribly wonderfully complex thing we are all part of…
If you’re reading list is short you might want to add this book (his website looks really good as well).
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